Thursday, March 6, 2008

Thursday, March 6

I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel like Dakota is spinning out of control and there is nothing I can do to help. We have no insurance right now since Bob changed jobs at the beginning of the year and really no extra money to take him to the doctor. I think he may be ADD and I don't know what to do and with me in what feels like a constant state of inner turmoil over this whole thing with Skylar and "him" moving and still able to be getting on with his life.
Oh yea I talked to the Asst. Dist Att today and she said that he wants to plead to 3 charges of indescent liberties with a minor child which is a misdemeanor and only wants to serve one sentence (which is about 13-18 months per count) and have the rest of the time as probation. I THINK NOT!! So as of today we are set for a June 9th Trial as long as the newly appointed prosecutor doesn't have any scheduling conflicts.
Ok back to Dakota he just wont listen to me no matter what I do or say or take away. I have tried to talk to him and mostly it seems that he wants more attention from me. When I do give it to him most of the time he just pushes me away, and sometimes it gets physical. I try not to push back because I don't want him to think that violence is the answer but I have to defend myself when he gets to far and I feel that I have to restrain him before he hurts himself or someone else.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I think he really needs the rest of his extended family near him. I miss you all so much. I hope one day soon you can move back to Ohio so we can be close again. I miss ya sis!!!